Though, it is important that they make certain adjustments when two
people come together in a relationship. This helps their bond to grow
stronger and fonder. But, always remember that a healthy relationship is
a two-way street. A place where both partners are equal at all levels.
We say so because when you look around you find that it is the woman who
makes more than her fair share of sacrifices and compromises for her
men. Especially after marriage,
she is the one
who is expected to make all the adjustments and changes. Ladies, while
you might be doing some things happily, there are some crucial aspects
in which you should never compromise evem when you are in love. Here are
some six things you should never do for a man in relationship
1. Ignore Your Dreams
Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him
always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big
promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad.
He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him.
There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would
you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your
hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams
and career are as important as his.
2. Modify your values
All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we
believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good
extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you
to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect
yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it
is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not
ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.
3. Change Your Look
woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only
because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing
and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change
certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should
admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just
because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears
too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as
drastic as a surgery.
4. Sacrifice your personal space
Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this
is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal
space and time that you should be spending with them just because he
wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you
are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else
apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.
5. Forget Who You Are
Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less
intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make
him happy. Men like independent women, so acting silly is not going to
help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for
him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality
and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so.
6. Handing over the reins
Never give him the access to be in control of you. No matter how much
you love him, the decisions should always be mutual. He should never
make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always
discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and
choices in mind.
Ladies, keep these things in mind. There are certain aspects of your
personality that you should not change for a man, even when you are in
love. If you are not true to yourself, you can never be true to your
relationship!
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